I’m so EXCITED for y’all to read the spiciest ideas to add to your sex bucket list - that I’m going to skip writing an introduction. Let’s just JUMP into these!
10 Spicy Ideas for Your Sex Bucket List:
1. Naked Twister :
This idea will make you share cheeky grins the next time you see a twister in public. Pick up a classic game of twister, throw your clothes away in a corner and play it naked. As you twist, bend, and stretch, your naked bodies start getting entangled.
You'll be amazed by the electrifying sensations coursing through both of you. This will bring laughter, arousal and leave you hungry for more.
2. Sense-ational Sex :
Ever wondered what would happen if you gave one of your senses a little vacation? It heightens the other senses like nothing else! You can bring in blindfolds to eliminate vision, or noise canceling headphones to mute the world.
And don’t stop there. See if you can eliminate not one, but two senses simultaneously! Trust me, you’ll want to try more and more variations once you try this.
3. Shushhhh :
Ah, moans are truly the sound of satisfaction, there’s no denying that. However, for a challenge, introduce a ‘no noise’ rule. The very moans you crave to make and hear are forbidden. Bite your lip, stifle your cries, but no moans at all.
You can take this idea to the next level, by introducing elements that make this challenge even more irresistible. It's a test of your self-control that will leave you both gasping for breath and aching for release.
4. Keep the clothes on:
Let’s flip the script a little on the classic strip tease, shall we? Instead of the usual slow undressing as things heat up, how about keeping those outfits on – every last button, zipper, and lace.
Do everything you’d otherwise do, but with your clothes. All the moves, all the passion, but with that layer of fabric in between. The forbidden touch, the electric anticipation – it's a recipe for unforgettable excitement!
5. Sex pillows :
When we talk about spicing things up in the bedroom, we often think of vibrators and other sex toys. We forget about the unsung hero in the pleasure department – the sex pillow! A sex pillow, as the name reads - is a pillow designed specially for sexual escapades.
You can simply place the pillow under your thighs to angle your pelvis better for a mindblowing ride. Deeper penetration is just the beginning – your imagination is the only limit to the ways you can use it.
Incase you don’t know where to get a sex pillow from, you can thank me later for this!
6. Your own sexy scavenger hunt :
How about crafting your very own X-rated scavenger hunt right in the comfort of your own four walls? Each task in your game to reach the next clue could be a sexual act (making out for a couple of minutes, watch me masturbate etc)
Then, here’s the kicker - along the way, you'll gather a trail of props like blindfolds, silky creams, and who knows what else. And the grand finale? Well, that's where all the tempting props you’ve collected come into play!
7. Audio Visual Stimulation :
Look for the hottest, steamist erotica book around, and read it to your partner. You can also use audio porn, if that’s more of your thing. Now, this is where it gets interesting. As you dive into reading sultry words out aloud, your partner can use a hand held vibrating massager on themselves.
You can crank this up, play audio porn and use a vibrator on your partner. Or you can use a vibrator on yourself while your partner watches you and listens to audio porn.
Don't forget to switch roles, take turns, and experience the thrill of watching and being watched.
8. Let the dice decide :
We’re always in the mood for extra foreplay, aren’t we? Grab a deck of playing cards, and let’s get started. Assign each of the four suits (clubs, hearts, diamonds and spades) to four different types of intimate touches (massage, oral stimulation, using a sex toy of your choice etc).
Now, it's time to shuffle the deck and take turns drawing cards. The number on the card? That’s the number of seconds / minutes you do that kind of touch!
It's the kind of foreplay that'll have you both on the edge of your seats, eagerly hoping that you get a 10 and not a 2!
Also Read: 10 Reasons To Indulge in Self Pleasure
9. Let the mirrors watch you :
Book a swanky hotel room with more mirrors than you can count. If you can arrange more mirrors in your room, that would also work really well. If nothing else, you can position yourself in front of the biggest mirror in your home.
Now, here's where the real fun begins – it's like staring in your very own sensual show. Forget recording a sex tape; this is a one-time-only performance! It might feel a tad awkward at first, but give it a little time. Seeing your partner’s body on yours will definitely make you so hot, you’ll always thank this article!
10. Guess what it is :
This game requires a little planning - but do that beforehand and I promise it will be worth everything. First, gather an assortment of props – think feathers, silky fabrics, a slightly damp sponge, or even a playful bit of rope.
Blindfold your partner, and now, with each unique material, tease, tantalize, and massage your partner's body. Let your partner guess what you’re using on them. The best part? You can decide on the prize for guessing the item correctly and the punishment for getting it wrong :)
I know that I promised 10 tips from my end - but Aunt Sassy had a few more to add :
How about dedicating a night to 'all for you,' where you focus entirely on one partner's pleasure? Or, take things up a notch by signing up for some steamy sex classes together? And for the truly adventurous, make it a mission to explore as many different locations for your intimate sessions as possible!
Go wild, put our ideas to good use, and tell us about what you have on your list! Who knows, maybe your suggestions will inspire the next 10 spicy ideas we share!
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About the Author
Hemali (she/her) is an explorer of the realms of sexuality, intimacy, and dating. She talks endlessly about the evolving landscape of feminist narratives on the big screen and makes you reanalyze the portrayal of women in mainstream culture. If you're looking for alternative conversation starters, take your pick from: Biryani, Art Fairs, or Spoken Word Poetry.
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