I can’t help but crack up whenever I think of that scene from the movie The Ugly Truth. You know the one: Katherine Heigl, in her polished, uptight glory, accidentally sets off her remote-controlled vibrating panties during a dinner party. Suddenly, the cool, composed woman we’ve come to know is reduced to a squirming, giggling mess, trying to play it off as if nothing’s happening. Meanwhile, a clueless Gerard Butler is half-grinning, watching her go crazy while the entire table speculates about her odd behavior. It’s a masterclass in awkward comedy—and a reminder of just how much power one tiny device can wield.

The scene is outrageous, sure, but it’s also kind of...intriguing. What’s the appeal of handing over the reins, of letting go, quite literally, of control? That’s the magic of vibrating massagers with remote controls. Whether you’re at a fancy dinner (I mean, bold choice, but you do you) or just lounging at home, there’s something thrilling about a little playful suspense.

Enter the modern-day dual remote vibrating massager. Unlike the rom-com’s slapstick gadget, today’s designs are sleek, discreet, and—thankfully—offer way more control. They’re built for couples looking to spice things up or for alone adventurers ready to explore hands-free bliss. And the dual functionality? Pure genius. Think of internal and external stimulation working in harmony, with settings that range from gentle hums to sensational vibrations.

But imagine this: instead of just a remote control for your vibrator, you’ve got a dual remote control massager. That’s right—the remote itself can double as a massager. It’s like the Swiss Army knife of pleasure toys. Sounds fun, doesn’t it? When designers get this creative, it’s only fair for users to match their energy. If you’re stuck wondering how to make the most of this genius invention, don’t worry—I’ve got your back. Here’s a playful guide to seven super fun ways you can use your dual remote vibrating massager.

Spice Up Date Night

Gone are the days of plain, boring date nights. Wanna max out the fun and take it to the next level? Just slip the vibrator into play. While one partner controls it from across the table, the other enjoys discreet thrills. There’s something wildly thrilling about trying to keep your composure in a public place while your partner holds the remote (or you’re holding theirs—equal opportunity fun!). Every clink of the wine glass, every shared glance, every playful smirk becomes part of a game only you two know you’re playing.

And let’s be honest: trying to keep your sexual energy in check when there’s a room full of unsuspecting strangers is half the fun. The tension? Electric. The stakes? Sky-high. You can’t let anyone know what’s happening under the table, and that makes every little shift in your chair feel like a delicious secret. It’s fun, cheeky, and builds anticipation for what’s to come later. 

Turn a Road Trip into a Joy Ride

Long drives just got a lot more exciting. Use the vibrator for some playful teasing while cruising on the highway (just make sure the driver stays focused!). It’s a flirty way to break the monotony of travel. Or you can stop by at a safer, relatively empty space and turn your car into a mini bedroom of sorts. The best part- there are less chances of getting caught, You can have this fun fully clothed, and the closed windows of the car will make sure only you two hear the loudest moans. 

Netflix and Thrill

Popcorn? Check. Favorite rom-com? Check. Now cue the massager-remote combo for a little extra action. Pair your favorite show with a little extra stimulation. Whether you’re cuddled up on the couch or lounging in bed, remote-controlled fun can make your “chill” time anything but boring. One side delivers discreet tingles, the other gives your neck a loving massage during those intense plot twists. A win-win for “Netflix and chill.”

Distance Play

To make things spicier with a remote-controlled vibrator, one partner can take control from across the room.  Imagine sitting across the room from your partner, both of you naked. There’s one rule: no touching. The only connection between you is the power of the remote—and the undeniable tension crackling in the air. Every press of the button is a tease, a thrill, a reminder of the control you hold over their pleasure. You can drive them to the edge with a flick of your wrist, testing just how far you can take it before pulling back. And the best part? Watching their body react to every pulse, every shift in intensity, while you sit back and savor the satisfaction of being in charge. It’s a slow, delicious build that’s as much about restraint as it is about release.

The Interlocked Pleasure Position (Face-to-Face Intimacy)

Sit facing each other, legs interlocked, so your bodies are close but still have space for your devices to work their magic. One partner uses the internal/external vibrator while the other enjoys the vibrating remote as an erogenous zone massager. The closeness amps up the connection, and you can take turns using the remote to switch things up—delivering pulsing vibrations that synchronize with your breathing or escalate as the tension builds.

The Shower Symphony

When the massager is fully waterproof, there are ways to get even more creative. One partner leans against the shower wall or lies in the tub while using the internal/external vibrator. The other holds the remote vibrator, massaging themselves or their partner’s neck, back, or other erogenous zones. The warm water and steam will heighten sensations and make the experience both relaxing and incredibly sensual.

During a chill vacation

I personally find the idea of doing something sensational under the stars quite exciting. But unfortunately, there isn’t a lot of privacy on beaches or in the mountains in this country. However, if being naughty in nature has been one of your top fantasies, here’s what you can do without worrying about someone secretly recording you. Whether you’re camping or just chilling at night by the breeze, sit 20 meters (not more) apart from each other and let the magic unfold. Just think about it—you increase the intensity as an ocean wave rises and decrease it as it descends. The wonderful harmony with nature will make it purely magical.  

Now, who says dual-remote controlled vibrators are just for the bedroom? While you might not want to reenact a dinner-party disaster, these toys do promise a dose of unexpected fun. Check out our newly launched limited-edition dual-remote control vibrator Thrill - which will make the fun double. It is like the ultimate inside joke—between you and your body (or your partner). Just maybe keep the remote out of reach when kids and elderly are around. You know, lessons learned from The Ugly Truth.

Incorporating the Thrill Massager into your adventures? Don’t forget the essentials. Adding water based lube can make every sensation feel smoother and more intense, while pairing the vibrators with other sex toys—like a discreet bullet vibe or a classic wand—can open up even more possibilities. The versatility of vibrators like the Thrill lets couples explore erogenous zones in creative ways, whether during intimate moments or playful teasing.

Also, check out our blogs on Understanding slow sex and what is a kink and its types to improve your knowledge of sexual health.

Written by Disha 

Bio: Disha (she/her) believes she's half therapist because people spill their guts to her with ease. But for now, she's writing sassy pieces on the internet about all things fun and pop culture. With a flair for wit and a curious spirit, she is all about digging into the saucy details of human intimacy.