You’ve Googled it at 3 a.m., whispered it in your group chat, maybe even asked your best friends… But asking your gynac? 

Crickets.

We get it! Talking about discharge feels scarier than texting your ex. But our vagina deserves better than late-night Reddit advice. So we went ahead and asked the questions you’ve been too shy to say out loud.

Because honestly? Your gynac has seen it all. Literally. From “Can I have sex during my period?” to “Why does my vagina itch?” There are so many questions floating around. Time to stop being shy and get some real answers.

Common Questions Around Sexual Wellness

Can I have sex during my period?

Short answer: Yes, you can. It’s completely safe if both partners are comfortable. And fun fact, period sex can actually help relieve cramps and boost mood (hello, endorphins).

Just make sure you’re using protection — period blood doesn’t prevent STIs.
Need a deep dive? See our blog on period masturbation and intimacy for more.

How often should I have sex?

There’s no “should” that fits everyone. Frequency depends on your body, your libido, your partner, your mood, and your life. What matters? Does it feel good for you? Not whether you’re “supposed to” be hitting a certain number.

Why is my vagina itchy?

Could be a few things: a yeast infection, bacterial vaginosis, a new detergent, scented soap, or even tight gym wear. If the itch comes with pain, discharge, or odour, see a gynac. Don’t let Dr. Google misdiagnose you.

And yes, cotton underwear > lace on most days. 

Read this blog on “Vaginal Health Foods & Drinks: The Ultimate Grocery Guide” to understand how to take better care of her.

Can I get pregnant if he doesn’t “finish” inside me?

Yes, bestie. Pre-cum can contain sperm — it’s like that one friend who shows up uninvited and ruins your plans. The pull-out method is not birth control, it’s reproductive roulette.

Use protection. Always.

Learn about the dangers of having unprotected sex in this post.

Is my vagina supposed to look like this?

Short answer: Yes. Every vagina looks different: colour, folds, size, texture, all of it. Think snowflakes, not photocopies. You don’t need to compare yourself to porn stars or Instagram bodies. That’s like comparing your handwriting to a font.

For more on what’s typical (and when to check in with a doctor), you can read our blogs on “Is My Vag Normal?”, “The V-Scent Verdict: How to keep Odor in Order”, and “10 Tips for Intimate Health and Vaginal Hygiene Handy”.

Can I use toys during my period or if I have PCOS?

Yes. Toys are safe anytime, as long as they’re cleaned well and made from body-safe materials like silicone (hint: like the ones we sell).
If you have PCOS and struggle with low libido, toys can actually help you reconnect with pleasure on your terms. Check out our guide on PCOS and libido.

Why does sex hurt sometimes?

It could be dryness (lube helps), anxiety (tension = pain), or a medical condition like vaginismus or endometriosis. Pain isn’t something to “push through.”
You deserve pleasurable sex, not endurance tests.

When to Actually See a Gynac

Don’t wait till it’s “too weird.” Book a visit if you notice:

• Burning, itching, or new odour

• Pain during sex

• Missed or irregular periods for months

• Abnormal bleeding

• Changes in discharge

• Any lump, sore, or bump

Your gynac’s seen everything — nothing you say will shock her. Promise.

(And if you don’t have a regular gynac, even your family doctor can help. No need to hunt for a “female-only clinic.”)

Conclusion

We whisper “pads” at chemists, hide our tampons like contraband, and pretend “down there” doesn’t exist… no wonder we freeze up at the doctor’s office. But your vagina isn’t a secret. It’s just part of your body. The more you talk about it, the easier it gets to care for it.

So next time you’re at your gynac’s office, ask the thing you’ve been dying to ask. Walk out with answers, not awkwardness.

Because your vagina isn’t shy… So why should you be?

And when words aren’t enough, trusted products like vibrators, lubes, and other sex toys can be game changers. They help you explore pleasure safely and confidently, making self-care a natural part of your sexual wellness journey. Don’t be shy—embrace the tools that empower you to feel good, inside and out.

About the Author: 

Madhu (she/her) has been an avid reader of all things spicy since her childhood. She writes sassy blog posts and listicles now so that others may benefit from her wholly inappropriate, wholly informative tastes, too.