3 New Spaces for Your Next Sexcapade: A Guide to Erotic Adventures

spaces for your next sexcapade

When it comes to spicing up playtime, sometimes it's about thinking beyond the confines of the bedroom. Exploring erotic encounters in spaces outside the boudoir can bring a sense of anticipation and novelty. (bonus points if you already have ideas sparking in your mind!).

According to research, when couples break free from the bedroom, they amp up the frequency of their intimate activities by almost double compared to those who stick to the bedroom routine. It makes you wonder: Do adventurous lovebirds naturally crave exploration, or does stepping out spark a whole new level of closeness? Either way, one thing's for sure, trying new spots turns up the passion dial.

Engaging in self-pleasure in different spaces can also bring an elating sense of freedom and self-discovery. In desi households where finding a private moment for yourselves can be quite a challenge, indulging in lovemaking outside the bedroom can add more thrill.

It's a way to create unforgettable moments amidst the constraints, turning limited privacy into a catalyst for passionate exploration. Add our wholesome lineup of intimate massagers to the mix and you’re going to skyrocket your pleasure to mind-blowing realms. So continue reading, as we dive into a world of cheeky discovery!

Sofa Straddle

The living room takes on a whole new level of naughtiness when transformed into a lustful playground. Indulging in passion in a space that is usually associated with everyday life heightens the excitement, while also providing a touch of familiarity.

Before engaging in pleasure, be sure to have a conversation with your sweetheart(s) about your comfort levels with engaging in intimacy outside the bedroom and what might be preferable spots.

Also try to be sure of your boundaries with other people in the house when it comes to engaging in pleasure outside the bedroom. Are you going to wait for the house to be empty, or if there's people in other rooms, would they be okay with hearing your moans and furniture rocking?

Try having these conversations if it's safe to have them so you can be respectful of everyone's personal space. 

For the Sofa Straddle position, you need a–you guessed it–sofa or something similar, like a lounge chair. One partner sits on the other's lap as they both face each other, and engage in vaginal or anal penetration.

Assure yourselves of a smooth experience with our water based lube DTF, formulated with absolute TLC. This position gives you freedom to explore various angles and movements, whether it's leaning back to provide a captivating view of bouncing tits or leaning forward for that intoxicating eye contact and non-stop kissing.

The cushioned surface of the couch allows for a range of motion, to find the perfect rhythm for both partners. And for an extra dose of satisfaction, don't forget to bring along the pleasure pillow UP, which levels up the aesthetic game as well as possibilities for pleasure, no matter what room you’re in.

Placing UP under the thighs of the partner on the bottom, can serve as the perfect accessory to prolong your blissful adventure, by allowing the rider to straddle their lover more comfortably, while also allowing for deeper penetration. The couch now becomes a cherished piece of furniture that carries the echoes of your carnal indulgence.

Counter Cravings 

Something about mixing pleasure and cooking is super steamy. Maybe it's the allure of being able to satisfy multiple cravings at once. A position that you definitely must try in the kitchen is Counter Cravings, which is a spin on doggy style.

One partner bends over the counter while the other enters them from behind with their penis or strap-on. The partner behind can also use a personal body massager like LIT on their darling who’s bent over, holding it against hotspots like their nipples and clitoris.

With its 5 different vibes and suction technology, LIT is going to be serving you those delicious O’s!

For safety, ensure that the counter is sturdy and supportive. You can also consider taking things up a notch with some role-play–whether it’s choosing to play chef and sous chef and dressing up in nothing but some naughty aprons and chef hats, or having one partner play a delivery person with a package that needs special touching to uncover tasty delights (*wink wink*).

Remember, safety, consent, and communication, are key ingredients for passionate exploits outside the bedroom as well. Squirt a generous amount of DTF on yourselves and your toys, and you’re all set to get cookin’! 

Drenched Delight

Wet kisses, slippery embraces, and naughty intentions–get ready to make a splash with some bathtime adventures that will leave you dripping in pleasure. Lovemaking in the shower oozes of sensuality–the invigorating sensation of water droplets tantalising your every touch, as your hands glide over your smooth wet body.

While most positions can take a bit of practice to master in the shower, the Drenched Delight offers you an easier route to enjoying shower sex. One partner stands with their back against the wall, while the other gets on their knees and tends to their partner’s vulva or peen with their mouth.

For better access, the standing partner can wrap their leg around their boo’s shoulder, so their legs are spread wide enough. And when we say "drenched" we're hoping you're going to get really wet with love juices, not suffocating under all the water–which is a common inconvenience with shower playtime! 

One easy fix for this is to have the shower raining down on your lover's back instead of their head. Also check the temperature of the water and adjust it according to what gets you going–steamy hot or refreshingly cool.

The partner who’s lavishing their lover with oral stimulation, can intensify their own arousal by holding our intimate massager Salty against their penis or vulva. Salty, is waterproof like our other toys, and has 10 vibes to elevate your experience. The same position could be tried solo.

Stand against a flat surface in the shower and spread your legs slightly–you can also use a stool to lift your leg. Let Salty rumble along your erogenous zones and revel in gratification, with the beat of water droplets adding a sensual soundtrack. 

Whether you're the adventurous type, ticking off potential steamy spots from your list, or simply looking to add some spice to your routine, we hope we've got your dirty minds ticking! Embrace the thrill of trying something new and let your desires guide you to uncharted territories of intimacy. Enjoy the journey, and we wish you the best of pleasure!


About the Author 

Anna (she/they) is a queer and neurodivergent. They have always been curious about pleasure and conversations around it (and wanted to found a condom company when they were 12, because of Global North misinformed panic that the climate crisis is a consequence of overpopulation–they’ve learnt better now). They wish to contribute to a world where everyone can enjoy access to pleasure, safely and shamelessly. 

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