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Unashamed: Notes from the Diary of a Sex Therapist by Neha Bhat
As someone weary of the self-help category, I appreciated this book’s stance on the evolving nature of healing. There is no right answer, no one-size-fits-all approach to therapy and there is no guaranteed time frame for healing.
How to navigate awkward situations during sex
Discover hilarious and awkward sex stories shared by real people. From pubic hair mishaps to slipping off hotel beds. Read on for laughs and tips on navigating your own bedroom blunders. Well, of course, your Aunt Sassy is here to spill all the deets.
The Different Kinds of Love in My Life
Embracing the diverse forms of love in our lives enriches and deepens our connections with others. Aunt Sassy encourages you to think about all the different kinds of love you experience in your life. She also brings you abundance in good vibes, with her range of adult products, designed to celebrate pleasure.
Bizzare Public Spots People Have Made Out In
We reached out to some lovely folks across different parts of India who were happy to share their experiences of making out in the most bizarre/quirky/awkward public spots and the memories they still fondly hold onto!
6 Red Flag Characters to Look Out for in a Relationship
Ever caught yourself daydreaming about dating fictional characters? Oh yeah, we've all been there! We bring you six bright red flags from a fictional universe to teach us some very IRL lessons.
10 Spicy Ideas to Add To Your Couple's Sex Bucket List
Pick up a classic game of twister, throw your clothes away in a corner and play it naked. As you twist, bend, and stretch, your naked bodies start getting entangled. You'll be amazed by the electrifying sensations coursing through both of you.
5 Couples Answer Questions About Using a Vibrator Together
It is SO DIFFERENT! I am someone who loves foreplay, and with my toys, the fun just goes up and up. I don’t always use it together but when we do, it’s just beyond incredible.
8 people share their first orgasm story
Ah, my first orgasm? Utterly happenstance. My jet spray was in action, and the water was rushing out. Then, by a wild accident - the water's force danced upon my, well, little buddy down there (didn't know that it was called the clit yet). It felt so good, I kept going. And voila, there came my big O. As I grew up, I upgraded to vibrators, but a good spray still brings a nostalgic smile. And sometimes, I go that way.
10 Thoughtful Ways to Plan the Perfect Date Night
Unleash your inner romantic with our guide to planning the perfect date night. From thoughtful planning, to embracing new adventures, and incorporating our intimate massagers and water based lube, discover how to ignite passion and leave your partner(s) wanting more!
5 Folks Share Their Experiences of Queer Joy
This Pride, discover the power of queer joy with us as we delve into the personal experiences of 5 folks. Explore the power of self-love, authenticity, and celebration within the LGBTQ+ community, and how they hope to see allies help bring change
Public Display of Affection: To Hold or To Hold Back?
Public display of affection (PDA) is routine in many relationships. And yet, there’s various factors that can make us hold back. Our guide explains what influences the way we show or do not show PDA–read to know more. And while you’re at it, be sure to check out our collection of self care products–we’ve got personal massagers, intimate lubricants and more. It's a pleasure galore!
7 People Share Their Idea of Foreplay
Gone are the days when penetration was the *only* way to reach cloud nine (iykyk) – we asked 7 folks across different cities in India, what they think foreplay is and the ways they like to indulge in it.
6 Reasons People Cheat That Are About More Than Sex
So, we’re talking about cheating and why people do it, for reasons other than pleasure. We understand that relationships and emotions can be complex and we're diving right into it. And whether cheating is a dealbreaker for you or not, we hope safe pleasure practices definitely are! So be sure to also check out our intimate lubricant DTF, to get down to that smooth lovin’.
Breakup Sex: A Post-Mortem for the Good, the Bad, and the Palatable Truth
Just as most subjects related to human relationships and pleasure, there is no one verdict (and certainly not a moralistic one!) on whether breakup sex is the way to go or not for you and your relationship that is folding up.
The Sassy Guide to Situationships & Getting Down to Relationship (DTR)
Wondering how to proceed from situationship to relationship? Aunt Sassy’s Down to Relationship Guide is guaranteed to answer all your questions, just like Aunt Sassy’s self care products are guaranteed to bring you pleasure.
All About Love: The Single’s Guide to Valentine’s Day
Find yourself single this Valentine’s Day and wondering what to do? Aunt Sassy’s got you! Not only does she have a range of personal massagers for you to pick from, she’s also got a whole guide on how you can spend the day.
‘Tis the Season: All About Cuffing
Has the winter chill got you wondering if you should be cuffing a snuggle buddy this holiday season? Whether you’re riding solo or with a partner, Aunt Sassy’s got her inventory stocked with the best adult toys in India. After all, personal body massagers make for the perfect cuddle sesh!
Of Break-Ups & Booty Calls: Getting Freaky with Your Ex
If you fancy shagging your ex, be sure to take some time to consider the prospect in terms of intimacy, comfort and pleasure. Go ahead and get that hotline bling, or not–either way, Aunt Sassy’s got you.
If Horror Makes You Horny, You’re Not Alone
Ever felt the urge to get frisky with boo while having a horror movie night? Psychology says, "You're not alone".
5 Ways to Get Frisky with Bae: LDR Edition
Distance makes the heart grow fonder – or maybe, it doesn't. But, a little imagination, creativity and special gifts go a long way in fanning those flames and keeping things hot, even if bae is away.
Endometriosis, Pain & Pleasure: 6 Women Share Their Journeys
Usually, everytime that I write to you - it's all about the fun stuff : why your clit needs sex toys, those hot new positions to try, and why owning it in bed can be such a turn-on. But today, I want to talk to you about something else.
What contraceptive would you prefer?
Whenever we think of protection, condoms are usually the first thing that pops into our heads. But guess what? There’s a whole world of other options out there! From pills to IUDs, their stories might just help you find your perfect match. Let’s dive into their experiences and discover the best fit for you!
The Sex Factor: What influences your sex drive?
So, your sex drive, a.k.a. your 'libido,' is basically your vibe check for getting it on. It's like how much or how little you're feeling the urge for some sexy time or intimate fun. It's like your inner meter for wanting to get cozy and close with someone.
Why should Young Girls have All the Fun?
Aging ain't always a walk in the park, especially for the ladies. But who says young girls get to have all the fun? Aunt Sassy does not subscribe to that belief at all. Today, she’s going to shake things up and show you how the joy of living (i.e. orgasmss) knows no age limit. Let’s talk about sex baby, regardless of the number on your birthday cake!
The Cultural Ignorance of Clitoris
I never met a man who told me he didn’t know how to come or didn’t know where his penis was. Lots of women have never even said the word “clitoris” or touched their clit, & don’t have a good idea about their genitals at all.
5 Ways Massagers Can Help You Feel Confident About Your Body
In this guide, we're not just talking about spicing things up; we're diving headfirst into the tantalizing world of body massagers—those not-so-secret tools that have the magical ability to rekindle the spark, add new dimensions to intimacy, and boost that oh-so-important confidence.
4 Gamechanger Products for Post-Wedding Bliss
It's time to break the ice and introduce a little sizzle to your first-night traditions with the fiery company of That Sassy Thing's personal massagers – the not-so-secret ingredient to post-wedding delight.
Top 10 Positions to Spruce Up with UP Pillow
10 terrific positions and 1 sex pillow that has got all your bases covered! Get this first night for your wife and surprise her with the sexiest moves in bed!
How to Use: TACO Massager for Men
A ribbed vibrating stroker such as TACO gives you the best of everything. Each of its features caters to a particular need, preference, or desire and hence makes it the perfect companion for every man who fancies a little fun in their solo routine.
5 Best Personal Massagers for A Couple's Night-In
Say hello to the wonderful collection of personal body massagers on That Sassy Thing! Here’s a quick and easy guide on our best 5 play picks to make your pleasure exploration easy and a lot more fun.
How to Use: Flex Personal Massager
To help you traverse your pleasure landscape in an all-new titillating and ultra-flexible way, here’s introducing you to our recent launch: Flex Personal Massager.
How to Choose the Right Type of Lube
Water-based lubes are more versatile and a great starter lubricant for enhancing comfort during sexual experiences and exploring new avenues when it comes to your pleasure.
4 Must-Try Solo Sex Positions for Self-Pleasure and Love
You don’t really need a reason to indulge in some much-deserved self-love sesh with your go-to personal massager. But, if a way is what you’re looking for, we’re giving you four to get your freak on when you masturbate next!
Do vibrators really give more satisfaction? Let’s find out!
By incorporating personal massagers into your sexual experiences, you can maximize your pleasure potential, deepen bonds with partners, and explore your sexuality more uninhibitedly.
6 Ways to Use Salty Massager to Shake Things Up with Boo
Salty intimate massager’s smaller size, as compared to other vibes, also makes it a more comfortable pleasure tool to manoeuvre during love-making sessions with your sweetheart. And with 10 different vibe settings, Salty personal massager can go high or low–you set the pace!
How to Pick the Right Intimate Massager: A Beginner's Guide
Whether it's a vibrator for women, a couples' toy, or a male pleasure toy, each category of intimate massagers offers unique experiences and caters to different desires. What might suit one well may not work at all for another and hence you should feel empowered enough to know how to take the next step towards your sexual wellness journey.
Sassy Resolutions for 2023
We know, resolutions are overrated AF! But, as a brand that’s committed to your pleasure, we added our own little sassy spin to those basic-ass NY resolutions.
Best Sex Toys to Enhance Your Sex Life
Whether you're all about keeping things simple or turning up the heat with a little adventure here and there, there are a range of sex toys for women and couple toys to elevate your bedroom experience.
Popping Up at Magnetic Fields Festival 2022
Here's a quick round-up on how That Sassy Thing went all out spreading good vibes while popping up at the Magnetic Fields Festival 2022, held at the magnificent Alsisar Mahal, Rajasthan from December 9-11.
3 Bedroom Essentials You Need to Set the Mood
Bedrooms can be a safe space for partners to get intimate with each other using a body massager, say. So, what do these bedroom essentials that set the vibe right for your downtime look like?
Double Up Your Pleasure: Meet Salty & Mushy
Double up your pleasure with the new discreet and body-safe, high-powered personal massagers from That Sassy Thing: Salty and Mushy.
All You Need to Know About Vaginal Lubricants
From the benefits, types, and side-effects to everything in between—learn all about vaginal lubricants and how to pick lubes ideal for you.
Here's Why You Need an Underwear Detergent
Ever heard of an underwear detergent? You need a separate one to keep your undies happy, we’ve got a list ready. Know about the best detergent for panties.
Your Guide to Vibrators for Women
Looking for sexual products online can be daunting. Read about the world of vibrators for women, for your pleasure.
Film Review: Poor Things by Yorgos Lanthimos
Did "Poor Things" leave you with more questions than answers? This review breaks down the film's themes of feminism, disability, sexuality and self-discovery, helping you make sense of the wild ride that is Bella Baxtar.
Your Next Feminist Read: 'Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again'
‘Tomorrow Sex Will be Good Again’ is a read for your feminist nerd days, when you’re craving long essays that tickle your brain cells.
Tarla Movie Review: A Refreshing Take on How Cooking Can Overthrow Patriarchy
All in all, Tarla is a great Sunday afternoon feminist watch - that will leave you with warmth, and rooting so strongly for an Indian housewife in the 60s! (Also, maybe a little hungry!)
Decoding Seeing Like a Feminist by Nivedita Menon
One of the feminist classics in the Indian context is Nivedita Menon's Seeing Like a Feminist. Read all about why this book should be the next pick in your journey towards feminist reawakening!
Dissecting The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf
The Beauty Myth serves as a memoir of the culture of beauty standards and body propaganda. It’s an interesting read that comes with some gut-punching reality checks about women, their bodies, and the politics of control in America as experienced in 80s and 90s.
5 Shows to Bingewatch with Your Girl Gang
We've picked our top 5 from the world of OTT content about female friendship that you can stream together with your beloved girl gang to channel some of that slay qween energy, cry in happy tears, and squish each other with some doting hugs.
Finding Your Way to Becoming Cliterate with Dr. Laurie Mintz
A must-have for your home library, ‘Becoming Cliterate’ is a great read for you and your partner to pick up on a cozy Saturday night in, going through a few chapters and maybe finding your way to a healthy conversation about your bodies and intimacy.
Of Love, Lust, and the Layers In-Between
‘A Handbook for My Lover’ beautifully captures the intricacies of writer Rosalyn D’Mello’s love, desire, fantasies, beliefs, and passion while navigating the quagmire that was her six-year-long relationship with a famous photographer, set in the Indian landscape of the 2010s.
Time to ‘Come As You Are’ with Emily Nagoski
As detailed and comprehensive as it can be, ‘Come As You Are’ is hands-down one of the deepest dives I’ve taken into the literary world making sense of desire, arousal, intimacy, and pleasure from a feminist lens.
A Treasure Trove Called ‘The Arts of Seduction’ by Seema Anand
Seema Anand's ‘The Arts of Seduction’ is a timeless, intricately woven contemporary account of the archaic, long-lost principles of seduction, intimacy, and pleasure as highlighted in the Kama Sutra.
Of Secrets & Whispers of Desire: ‘Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows’
Balli Kaur Jaswal’s ‘Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows’ is a bold and uninhibited take on the unexplored sexualities and pleasure of lonely and uneducated Punjabi widows living in Southall, London.
‘Dr Cuterus’ Gets It Right Again!
Tanaya's book 'Dr Cuterus: Everything Nobody Tells You About Your Body' sets the premise straight with how it's not yet another book talking about just sex, but an honest attempt at helping people get acquainted with their bodies (inside out), pleasure, intimacy and normalizing all the bits that may (or, may not) make up who we are!
Pleasure is a Party with Ruby Rare’s 'Sex Ed'
Making matters of love, lust, pleasure and intimacy super fun and more approachable, Ruby Rare hit the nail on the head yet again with her book, 'Sex Ed'.
Your Handy Guide for Pleasure: ‘The Sex Book’ by Leeza Mangaldas
With 'The Sex Book', Leeza Mangaldas has laid the foundation for what could be, in her own words, “a world where all sexual experiences are consensual, safe and pleasurable—for everyone, of all genders and sexual orientations.”
Laila Zafar on Being a Single Mother in India
Laila Zafar, a single parent, and lawyer based in Mumbai recalls her experience navigating the pressures, challenges, and stigma associated with single parenthood in India. In a candid interview with That Sassy Thing, she opened up about starting The Village for Single Parents - a community and safe space for Indian single parents that help them with psychosocial and legal assistance.