One evening, he looks at me with that cheeky grin and goes, “Let’s play a game. How about we use only one organ or sense in bed tonight? The catch is - we’ll not use anything else”
“Tongue!” I yelled faster than a lightning bolt. I was desperately hoping for him to go down on me tonight, so I had to give this no thought.

That evening was never-ending. No seriously. I couldn’t wait for the night to cum.

The lights were slightly dim. He even went all out with this room freshener that made the whole space smell like a sexy garden party. 

First, he eased me back onto the bed. He hovered next to me, eyes locked, and then - oh, he knew exactly what he was doing - his tongue slipped inside, setting off a wave that made my body hum like an electric wire. Our tongues did the longest dance that I can remember.

I instinctively grabbed his hands, guiding them to wrap around my waist, craving more deeper touch. But he wasn’t having any of my rule-breaking. He pulled back, biting down on my lip with just enough force to make my breath catch. It was a silent, first warning: I play by the rules, or I pay the price. I couldn’t help but giggle.

After an eternity of deep, breath-stealing kisses, he finally slid his tongue out of my mouth. His next move was slow, torturously slow, as he charted a path from my neck downward. Mind you, he moved his tongue around my body, drawing a path.

He took his time, and I mean his time - gliding his tongue in a trail that mapped out my collarbone, swept down to my belly button, and kept me guessing as it meandered lower. When he reached that final destination, my anticipation had built so high it felt like the entire room might combust.

Then, he took his entire tongue out, and took long laps on the outside and surrounding the edge of my panties. Breathless and desperate, I confessed how wet I was and practically pleaded for him to remove the thin barrier between us. But he wasn’t done playing with the rules. No hands. He used only his teeth to take ‘em off. Slight update : my panties tore a little.

I figured that once my panties were off, his tongue would finally find its way to my clit. But no, he was on a whole other mission. He slid down to my inner thighs, planting slow, maddening strokes with his tongue that kept him frustratingly far from where I wanted him most.

With a smirk that screamed control, he whispered, “Keep begging, keep saying my name, or you won’t get what you want tonight.” Of course, I obliged - I had to.

He then brought his tongue around the clit, and started licking around it. He also sucked a little around the clit - but still did not focus on my clit completely.

Finally, he moved in closer, teasing his tongue around my clit. He licked and played, each flick and gentle suck just shy of where I needed him most. He was almost there, but not there yet - yk what I mean?

Then, with a grin that screamed mischief, he laid his tongue flat and relaxed it against my vulva, declaring he was done. NOOOOO! My voice cracked as I pleaded, every ounce of me begging for him not to stop. He took his time, savoring the power he held before answering my pleas with broad, sweeping licks from the bottom of my vulva all the way up, this time hitting the clit with each stroke. It felt like his tongue had mapped and claimed every inch of me.

Just when I thought he’s done with all his tongue tricks - he did something completely unexpected. “Stay still. Don’t move", he said. Before I could even catch my breath, he was back between my legs, and this time, a chill kissed my skin. A gasp escaped as I realized - ice. He’d brought ice in his mouth, and now, his tongue rolled over my most sensitive spots.

I couldn’t hold it in anymore - moaning, I whispered that I was about to cum. But in a firm, commanding voice, he shot me down with a simple, “No, you won’t.” My heart raced as he got up and walked over to the drawer, pulling out LIT, my absolute favorite massager. I was so close to cumming - I wasn’t thinking about anything else. He told me to hold LIT firmly against my clit while his tongue kept working its magic, slowly and deliberately. “Now,” he said. Without a second thought, I let go, and in that instant, the pleasure ripped through me like a tidal wave. My body was overwhelmed by the intensity, as I came harder than I thought was even possible.

I was about to get up - but he immediately gave me a look. I knew what the look meant. “Did I ask you to get up?” is what he meant. I lied down, as he changed the speed on LIT. He took his tongue to my inner thighs for a bit, before getting back around my clit again. I was ordered to keep begging while moaning his name, and in almost no time, I came one more time.

I tried to sit up, but the moment he shot me that look, I froze. I knew exactly what it meant - “Did I ask you to get up?” His gaze was firm, commanding. I obeyed without question, lying back down as he adjusted the speed on LIT. The sudden change sent waves of heat through me as he trailed his tongue down my inner thighs, teasing me before making his way back to my clit.

“Keep begging,” he ordered, the words wrapped in control. It didn’t take long. Just moments later, I was cumming again, shaking and gasping for air.

I now got up, and said, “My turn baby.”
I made him lie down, straddling his legs, and faced him. Of course, after everything he’d just done, I had to kiss him first. My tongue is moving wildly inside his, tasting him, claiming him. Even after all this time, it still feels so damn satisfying.

Slowly, I leaned in closer, pressing my body against his until I was lying on top of him. My lips hovered just an inch away from his ear as I whispered, my breath hot against his skin, "Thank you for everything you just did." His body tensed beneath me, and I cupped his face with my hands. But before I could say anything more, he gripped my wrists with a firm hand and placed them behind my back.

"Only tongue," he reminded me, his voice low and commanding, yet playful.

I sighed, and grazed his earlobe between my lips. I moved my tongue around and started gently tugging his ear. Gradually, I made my way down, my lips trailing across his skin, until I reached the tips of his fingers.

I paused for a moment, before placing the tip of my tongue against his finger, sliding it up and down slowly. With each pass, I added another finger, my mouth now enveloping them, my tongue working as I continued. I locked eyes with him, giving a sly wink, knowing how much he loved every second of this. I kept my rhythm, savoring each moment, before I slowed, removing two fingers and focusing on just one. To end this game, I brought my tongue to the tip of his finger, giving it a playful, gentle bite, leaving him hanging, wanting more.

I couldn’t resist going back to his lips, but this time, I decided to mix things up. I leaned in and aimed for the roof of his mouth, not entirely sure what it would trigger. I was just curious, experimenting, seeing how far my tongue could go. As soon as I gently ran it along the roof of his mouth, something unexpected happened. He started giggling, and before I knew it, he burst into laughter. I couldn’t help but join in, both of us laughing uncontrollably, caught in the moment.

I moved my lips to his neck, kissing him slowly - because honestly, what else screams, “I want you right here, right now?” My tongue then traced a path down to his nipples, teasing and flicking gently at first, savoring every inch. Gradually, I increased the pressure, shifting from a slow, soft pace to something a bit rougher, playing with the rhythm as I felt him react. His hand gripped the back of my head, guiding me closer to his chest, pressing my lips even more firmly against his nipples. A gleed with joy, knowing I had him exactly where I wanted.

I slowly moved down, my lips brushing his skin just beneath his nipple, and then kissed my way down his torso. My kisses grew softer as I reached his inner thighs. I planted a kiss on his knee, then continued my journey, covering each side of his body, inch by inch, as I made my way lower. By the time I reached his penis, I could feel his hunger for more.

I circled my tongue around his penis head, very very gently. I had my hands behind my back, to make sure I stick to the only tongue rule. I opened my mouth and with a wide, relaxed tongue, I started licking and lapping. After quite a few, actually many, laps of licking his penis - I took it inside my mouth. I went up and down at a not very gentle but not very fast rhythm, while looking into his eyes. I then swirled my tongue all around and in between his balls.

I kept playing with my tongue : licking at different speeds, kissing and applying some pressure at intervals - on both his penis and his balls. I focused on his reactions, and did more of what made him moan more, until I moved to a new spot and a new rhythm. As I felt him approaching climax with higher moans, I continued at the same pace with his penis inside my mouth - until finally, he came.

He gently bent down and pressed a soft kiss to my forehead, both of us rising to clean up. As we tidied up, he smirked and casually said, “Let’s make more use of our tongue,” and without missing a beat, I knew exactly what he meant. We were going to order some chilli garlic noodles.

As the night unfolded, it wasn’t just our tongues doing the magic. The LIT suction massager became an irresistible extension of our pleasure, amplifying every sensation. Paired with a silky, warming water based lube, each touch felt electrifying, creating an unforgettable blend of intimacy and exploration. Trust me, the right vibrator or sex toy can elevate a night like this to pure ecstasy.

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About the Author:

Hemali (she/her) is an explorer of the realms of sexuality, intimacy, and dating. She talks endlessly about the evolving landscape of feminist narratives on the big screen and makes you reanalyze the portrayal of women in mainstream culture. If you're looking for alternative conversation starters, take your pick from: Biryani, Art Fairs, or Spoken Word Poetry.