Gather around lads, ladies, and everyone who identifies in between, for I have discovered THE secret to enhanced pleasure: massage-oil candles! And the best part? They’re also sublime for de stressing or recentering yourself to peace and calm. But, you know me, it’s always a little pleasure I seek. So come a little closer because I’m about to tell you all about how I used a massage-oil candle for the first time and what it felt like. Spoiler alert: it’s nothing short of divine!
How to Use A Massage Candle
Round 1: Solo Play
The very first thing I did, of course, was buy a massage-oil candle. I went with a strong, earthy, musk scent and boy, did it waft through the room as soon as I undid the lid of the candle. All I had to do next was to light the wick and by the time I got myself cosy and ready for playtime, the top of the candle had melted into a pool of liquid desire. The scent was stronger than ever and the warm glow of the flame bathed everything around me in a lovely hue–my room had the perfect sultry, seductive vibe. Everything was ready!
I blew out the candle and while I was tempted to pour this glistening, golden-ish liquid all over me, I knew I had to be responsible and conduct a patch test first (i.e: put a small amount on my hand to make sure my skin isn’t reacting adversely). Now I know you’re probably thinking: don’t you have to first be responsible by waiting for the oil to cool? Nope, not when it’s a massage-oil candle. The cool thing about how massage candles work is that they have a lower temperature compared to soy wax candles. So they don’t burn the same way which means we don’t have to worry about the oil being too hot to handle!
Patch test done, it was time to pour! As the oil cascaded over my body, it sent shivers down my spine because of how perfect the temperature was – warm enough to soothe, yet not scalding enough to ruin the mood. Everywhere the oil touched was a gentle, relaxing caress that quickly morphed into pure pleasure as I indulged in this luxurious candle massage. A quick caution: the oil is meant for external use only, so it’s best to keep away from more intimate areas.
Back to the experience: the luxurious-yet-light feel of the oil, its calming warmth, the decadent smell of musk, the delectable pleasure of the massage and how it made my skin so soft and shiny…oh my, I’ve gotten myself all hot and bothered just thinking of it!
The TL;DR, SFW verdict? It was the best solo play session EVER!
Round 2: Partnered Play
It’s no surprise that the massage-oil candle quickly became my favourite toy, so the only logical next step was to introduce it in partnered play and make it a good-ol’ fashioned romantic massage! My partner was excited to try but also a little wary of the heat. But once I told them about the patch test, they were quickly put to ease.
I set the stage once again, dimming the lights and igniting the flame of seduction. The scent filled the air, promising an evening of passion and indulgence. Foreplay was about to get steamier than ever!
I don’t want to repeat ALL the steps of how to use a massage candle but this time, we waited for a good ten minutes before putting the flame out so that there was enough melted. And we started of course, with a patch test. I rubbed some on their hands and while the oil did not cause any reaction, I was slightly surprised to find that the temperature did. My partner wasn’t as big a fan of the temperature as I was, turns out they like a little less heat on their skin. So we waited a couple of minutes for the oil to cool just a liiiiitle and then, it was time to pour, baby!
I gave my partner a massage first so they could truly relish the experience. The strong, seductive scent combined with the warm oil elicited gasps of pleasure and wonder. As the symphony of aphrodisiacs got to work, we decided to elevate the play even more by introducing a blindfold. It worked like a charm. Removing one sense heightened the others and they could really focus on the sensual touch and seductive scent of the oil.
Then, it was my turn for a romantic massage. And look, while I’ll always be a strong advocate of solo-play, getting a massage from someone you love and trust just hits different. Since I particularly loved the added element of temperature, we introduced an exciting new element: ice! Playing with the extreme temperatures of the oil and ice created a stairway to heaven I never knew I could ascend! If you're interested in incorporating massaging candles into your love story, check out our blog on "POURing Passion into Your Love Story" for more tips on enhancing intimacy
POUR Some Sassy on Me: An Overview Of Our Very Own “POUR” Massage-Oil Candles
Well, it's time to spill the beans on the most exciting round yet – a rendezvous with POUR, Aunt Sassy’s very own new line of massage oil candle that's about to take your pleasure game to a whole new level!
Choose between two tantalising scents: Moody Mango and Musky Tease. Made with a blend of nourishing Kokum oil butter and enriching essential oils like Wheat germ and Chamomile, these candles were practically made to tease and please. How soft they make your skin and how calm they make you feel are just bonus side effects! We hand-pour each small batch with love in small tin cans that are perfect to take on the go. Hold on, it gets better because both these sublime candles? They come together as a set! The more the sexier, right?
Whether you're flying solo or igniting the flames of passion with a partner, POUR is your go-to companion for a sassy, sultry experience. Get ready to indulge, tease, and pamper yourself – because you deserve it!
Now, if you'll excuse me, my POUR is ready for action. Round three awaits ;)
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About the Author
Vidisha is a screenplay writer who also loves writing the occasional blogs. She's smitten by all things funny, sassy, and creative. And has the penchant for cracking the odd joke. She also wrote this bio.
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