(aka: The Sexy Little Map That Makes 2026 Your Pleasure Year)

You already make vision boards for careers, travel, and dream homes—so why not for the kind of sex that actually makes your body hum?

A Sex Vision Board is like a mood board for your desire.
It helps you visually claim how you want to be wanted, touched, and desired—on your terms.

Think:

• Kitchen-counter make-outs that turn into something more

• Slow grinding on his lap in the car

• A hotel balcony, dress hitched up, city lights watching

This isn’t about performing like porn.

It’s about saying:

“This is how I want my pleasure to feel in 2026.”

If your honest review of your sex life is “Good, but it could be so much better,” this is a playful, zero-pressure way to turn quiet fantasies into a shared, doable plan.

You can:

• Go old-school with scissors and paper

• Or keep it discreet and digital

Whatever feels safest—and sexiest—for you.

Why This Works So Well for Couples

Therapists love vision boards because images say what words often struggle to.

Instead of freezing at

“I don’t know how to say this…”

You get to point and say:

“That. I want that energy with you.”

Couples who create shared intimacy or sex vision boards often:

• Talk more honestly about what turns them on (without it becoming a fight)

• Drift less into boring routine because they have a visible “menu” of ideas

• Feel closer and more aligned because they’re literally looking at the same future

This is especially powerful for women who’ve been taught to be “chill” about sex.

A Sex Vision Board is you saying:
“My pleasure gets a seat at the table.”

Step 1: Set the Mood (10 Minutes)

Make this feel more like foreplay, less like homework.

Create the vibe:

• Lights low

• Candles on

• Phones away

• Sit side-by-side (not across a table like an interview)

Start with feelings, not positions:

• “In 2026, I want our sex life to feel more… playful / wild / soft / worship-y.”

• “What do you miss from the early days?”

• “Where on my body do you wish you could spend more time?”

Decide your focus:

• Timeframe: Next 3–6 months

• Buckets:

  • Positions you want to try or do more of

  • Conversations / dirty talk you want to explore

  • Places you want to fool around (hotels, showers, cars, new corners of home)

Each of you can jot a private mini list first, then share.

Curiosity only.
No shaming. No “too much” or “too vanilla.”

Step 2: Build a Physical Sex Vision Board

(Keep it safe from prying eyes!)

What you’ll need:

• A corkboard or thick sheet of paper/cardboard

• Old magazines (fashion, lifestyle, travel, interiors—anything sensual)

• Scissors, glue or pins, markers

• Optional printouts (positions, lingerie, toys)

How to do it (30–45 minutes):

1. Hunt for Images & Words

Look for:

• Couples pressed against walls

• Laughing in bed

• Kissing in the rain

• Hotels, bathtubs, balconies, cars, kitchens

• Phrases like:

  • “Take your time”

  • “All night”

  • “Can’t keep my hands off you”

You can also include:

• Lingerie styles

• Toys you’re curious about

• Positions you want to explore

2. Create “Sexy Sections”

Loosely divide the board into:

• Top: How I want to feel

  • Desired

  • Powerful

  • Soft

  • Worshipped

• Middle: What we’re doing

  • Positions

  • Touch

  • Kissing styles

• Bottom: Where & when

  • Shower sex

  • Balcony quickies

  • Lazy Sunday mornings

  • Car make-out nights

3. Make It Personal

Add:

• A selfie or couple photo you love

• Handwritten notes like:

  • “You going down on me on the edge of the bed.”

  • “Me on top, slow grinding till I say I’m done.”

  • “A weekend trip where we only leave the room for food.”

4. Decide Where It Lives

• If privacy allows: wardrobe, nightstand, behind bedroom door

• If not: a folder under the bed, pulled out on “Vision Board Nights”

The goal:
Every time you see it, your brain gets a tiny nudge—
“Oh right. We planned to have that kind of sex.”

Step 3: Create a Digital Sex Vision Board

Perfect if you live with family, flatmates, or just want to stay discreet.

Tools you can use:

• Canva – easy drag-and-drop templates

• Pinterest – secret shared board

• Notion / Google Slides – for the slightly nerdy (but hot) planners

How to do it (25–30 minutes):

1. Save the Vibes

Search for:

• “Sensual couple art”

• “Intimate couple photography”

• “Steamy hotel room”

Add:

• Lingerie styles

• Jewellery

• Underwear

• Toys

Save phrases like:

• “Use your words”

• “Meet me in the shower”

• “Sit on my face”

2. Build Your Board

Create a new Canva page or secret Pinterest board.

Add:

• Silk or fabric textures

• Dimly-lit rooms

• Fairy lights

Organise clusters:

• Positions (on top, across lap, from behind)

• Places (hotel, car, shower, couch, balcony)

• Words (commands, compliments, fantasies)

3. Make It Yours

Add simple text like:

• “More slow, deep sex—not rushed quickies.”

• “You taking the lead and pinning my hands.”

• “Dirty talk before we even touch.”

You can also include icons for toys:

• Suction toys

• Plugs

• Handcuffs

4. Keep It Safe & Shared

• Use secret boards or locked albums

• Agree on where it’s stored and how it’s used

• Schedule a monthly Vision Board Date to open it together

Digital boards are also amazing for long-distance couples—screenshare, flirt, and build together.

Step 4: Turn the Vision Into Real Sex

A sexy board is cute.
A sexy board that changes your actual sex life? That’s the point.

Keep it low-pressure:

• Once a week, pick one image and ask:
  “Want to try a version of this?”

• Start small:

  • Just the kissing

  • Just the dirty talk

  • Not the full scene

Use it as a conversation tool:

• “This turns me on because it feels risky.”

• “This makes me nervous, but I’d like to work up to it.”

Every month:

• Add a sticker or emoji to things you’ve tried

• Remove anything that no longer feels like a yes

• Add new fantasies that came up while playing

This keeps the board alive and honest, not a checklist you’re failing at.

Step 5: Close With Connection

Once the board is done, don’t pressure yourselves to have “the best sex ever” immediately.

Instead:

• Ask: “What on this board excites you most?”

• Ask: “What feels like a soft maybe?”

End with:

• Cuddling

• A long kiss

• Gentle touch

If it naturally turns into more, great.
If not, it’s still foreplay—for your whole year.

The real win isn’t one wild night.

It’s saying out loud:

“I want more. I deserve more. And I want to explore it with you.”

That’s what a Sex Vision Board really is—a shared promise to take your pleasure seriously, and have fun doing it.