Have you ever had one of those “this is it, I’ve ascended” moments in bed? Like, your soul just leaves your body for a second? Because let me tell you, dog sex style has done that to me SO. MANY. TIMES. It's one of my favourites, and I can go yapping about it endlessly. So, that's what I'm gonna do today!

Introduction to Doggy Style

A fan favorite for a reason, this banger is for deep strokes and A+ angles. Traditionally, it’s hands-and-knees action with the receiver up front and the giver bringing the heat from behind. But tbh, there’s no one way to wag this tail.

Why Doggy Style is So Popular  

Why is the dog style for sex the IT girl of sex positions? First off, the angles - Immaculate. Both the G-spot and the P-spot get the VIP treatment. Honestly, it’s got that deep, toe-curling, back-arching magic that just hits different. Plus, the hands-free situation means you can do whatever - grip the sheets, get a little spanking action, or just hold on for dear life. And can we talk about the cute butt view? Absolute 10/10. 

But the real reason it’s a favorite? It brings out that primal, take-me-now energy in the best way.

How to Master the Classic Doggy Position  

Alright, bestie, if we’re gonna do doggy position for sex, we’re gonna do it right. For the classic version, the receiver has to be on their hands and knees, back arched, booty up - textbook stuff, ya know. But come in, I’ll tell ya the secrets to mastering it. 

First, alignment is key. If you want deeper penetration, try lowering your chest to the bed or arching your back more. Think sexy Instagram pose, but make it functional. If it’s feeling too deep, prop yourself up on pillows or have your partner adjust their angle. Of course, we’re not going to put your comfort in the backseat.

Second, tempo and control. Doggy sex style can go from slow and sensual to oh-my-god-yes real quick, so communicate what feels good. And don’t forget to engage those hands, there are a million things to do!

Best Doggy Sex Positions to Try 

The Kickstand: 
Lift one leg and let your partner slide in deeper. Less booty cushion means more intense penetration. If you’re feeling extra bold, you can even play around with different angles by adjusting how high you lift your leg. 

Holding onto a headboard or the edge of a couch can help you with balance for this doggy sex style. After all, no one wants to topple over mid-thrust.

The Press:
This one is my personal favourite doggy position for sex, cause oh, the full body contact it allows!

The receiving partner lies flat on their stomach with their legs together, while the penetrating partner slides in from behind. If you wanna add even more spice, the top can gently hold down the bottom’s arms or press their body closer for an extra dominant feel.

Sink In: 
Bathroom sex deserves way more love! We see it in movies all the time, but how many of us are actually making the most of those steamy, spontaneous restroom rendezvous? 

This doggy position for sex is perfect for a quickie with maximum impact. The receiving partner props themselves up against the sink, using it for support while angling their hips to get just the right depth. Meanwhile, the top gets the perfect grip for deep, toe-curling thrusts.

Major Bonus: You can catch your reflection in the mirror for an extra espresso dose of hotness.

Lap Lift:
Here’s what it looks like: 

With this doggy sex style, the bottom gets to rest more, meaning less effort and way more pleasure. Meanwhile, the top can sit back, enjoy the view, and easily sneak in some playful spanking. Less balancing, more fun. It’s perfect for some lazy lovin’. 

Power Squat: 
Instead of chilling on their knees, the bottom plants their feet on the ground like they’re about to take off and leap. The top gets full control for deep, no-holding-back thrusts, while the bottom can tweak the angle for max pleasure. Plus, let’s be real, it’s basically a booty workout with benefits.

Tips for Comfort and Pleasure

If you're looking for ultimate comfort, the number one tip is to grab some pillows or cushions to support your joints. A little setup goes a long way in keeping you pleasure-focused instead of ow-my-knees-hurt " focused.

Now, how did we take your pleasure off the charts with this one? 
First, remember that this position is the portable snack of sex. Try all the best doggy sex positions in the shower, gripping the staircase banister, or bent over the kitchen counter like you’re about to recreate a scene from a very different kind of cooking show. Got a spacious backseat? That works, too!

Also, don’t sleep on the fact that dog style for sex isn’t just for penetration. It’s a VIP invitation for cunnilingus and anal rimming too. 

And if you feel extra extra freaky, here’s what you are gonna do. Tie those hands up, let your partner take control, and unleash your dom and submissive era. 

How to Enhance the Experience with Props or Toys 

LIT suction massager, or tbh, any other clit stimulating toy is how you can make things downright dangerous. Your partner can hold you off your orgasm until they give permission. They control the intensity, the rhythm, and just how long you’ll be begging for it.

Or, flip the script. You take charge, set the pace, and send yourself straight to the clouds. Either way, once you mix penetration with toy magic, it’s hot to holy shit.

Common Mistakes to Avoid 

One, don’t rush in like a chaos goblin. If doggy style positions ever felt more ow than ooh, it’s probably because you skipped the warm-up. The best doggy positions go deep, which means your body needs time to get prepped. So don’t just dive in, spend a whole lotta time making out, teasing, and touching all A+ erogenous zones. Maybe it’s some spicy dirty talk, maybe it’s your fave lingerie. Whatever gets both of you in the mood, do that.

Two, don’t make the rookie move of forgetting the lube. Even if you’re naturally lubricated, a little (or a lot of) lube can take things from nice to mind-blowing. It reduces discomfort, makes movement smoother, and keeps everything feeling amazing throughout. And if you’re playing with backdoor action? Lube isn’t just a good idea, it’s a must. Trust Aunt Sassy; your body will thank you.

Three, don’t skip the hygiene check. Doggy makes the backdoor very accessible, and if anal play is on the menu, cleanliness is non-negotiable. Shower, use a bidet, and keep those toys and hands squeaky clean. Bacteria is definitely not the kind of surprise you want. Swap to a fresh condom whenever you switch from back to front or between partners. Safety equals sexy. 

And lastly, you don’t have to deal with ‘help, my arms are struggling,’ struggle. Adjust the setup a bit. Try the dog style for sex near a bed or couch so you can rest your upper body while still keeping things hot and heavy. 

No one’s handing out awards for suffering through a shaky push-up hold. Comfort is key to going all in.

Communication and Consent for a Great Experience

Deep penetration can be bootiful for some and absolutely not for others. Both of my frn, are valid. If your partner’s hitting the cervix in a way that feels more ouch than ooh, speak up. A quick “slower,” “shallower,” or even a lil’ “angle adjustment, please” can make all the difference.
But communication isn’t just about discomfort, it’s also about making things better. Love a certain rhythm? Want more clit action? Whisper, moan, or say what you want. The hottest sex is built on good communication, not just good technique.
And if you’re diving into rougher play, a safeword is your best friend. You can try the classic red, yellow, and green system. Green means keep going, yellow slows it down, and red is a full stop. Or you can decide on words that feel more natural to you.
Consent isn’t just a one-time thing when it comes to doggy style positions. Keep yapping, and keep checking in.
9. Best Ways to Transition Between Doggy Styles  

No one wants a clunky, “Wait, wait, let me just, uh, hold on” moment. 

Instead of an awkward shuffle, slow things down and grind against each other before making the move, so it keeps the heat simmering. If you want to get up, have your partner guide you from kneeling to standing while teasing you along the way. Make sure that you have your hands all over each other while you transition. 

Best Ways to Transition Between Doggy Styles  

No one wants a clunky, “Wait, wait, let me just, uh, hold on” moment. 

Instead of an awkward shuffle, slow things down and grind against each other before making the move, so it keeps the heat simmering. If you want to get up, have your partner guide you from kneeling to standing while teasing you along the way. Make sure that you have your hands all over each other while you transition. 

My favourite way is pulling him closer and whispering exactly what I want next. “Wanna see what happens if I arch like this?” A little dirty talk turns my transition into a part of my steamy moment. 

Now that you know literally everything from comfort hacks to freaky extras, wild styles, and smooth transitions, I better hear that you're putting this knowledge to good use. So go on, give it a whirl, and then spill the tea. Tell Aunt Sassy whatuu think is the best way to do doggy, but only after you've tried every single one ;)

Author Bio:

Hemali (she/her) is an explorer of the realms of sexuality, intimacy, and dating. She talks endlessly about the evolving landscape of feminist narratives on the big screen and makes you reanalyze the portrayal of women in mainstream culture. If you're looking for alternative conversation starters, take your pick from Biryani, Art Fairs, or Spoken Word Poetry.