Sex is great—it can be super fun, intense, passionate, or even slow-paced. Whether you're all about keeping things simple or turning up the heat with a little adventure here and there, the way you experience pleasure with a partner may vary and can be dynamic, and that's completely a-okay! In any case, adding adult products for pleasure such as sex toys for women to the mix can spruce up the romance, fan those flames and reignite the spark. A total game changer in the bedroom, sex toys can greatly elevate your sex life and help you experience pleasure in rather exciting ways.
While thinking of sex toys for women or even couple toys, it can be really challenging, daunting, or even intimidating to shop for them, given how little we might know about them, or even our own pleasure. And, while the idea to incorporate sex toys can be super tempting and fun, it’s important to do your research and find your perfect match (just as you’d do while seeking relationships)!
Best Suction Vibrator Online: LIT Massager
LIT is a body-safe clit stimulator powered by suction technology. What this means is that suction-based sex toys don’t vibrate or shake, but form a soft seal around the clitoris (or any other part that’s protruding outward like the nipples) and offer a unique, gentle vacuum-like sensation, unlike anything you’ve experienced before!
LIT body massager comes with 5 different speed modes and is splashproof to match your vibe and mood. Make it the best sex you ever had with a partner (or, solo) with one of our bestselling sex toys, LIT. In fact, one of our customers recently said, “This does what the mouth can’t do”!
OG of All Couple Toys: G-spot Vibrators
For all the g-spot vibrator enthusiasts out there, OG personal massager offers both internal and external stimulation with 10 different frequencies so you can pick your pace. It’s body-safe, waterproof, and USB-rechargeable, making it all the more accessible as a sex toy! To help you boost intimacy and enhance your sex life with a partner, sex toys like OG can be a great way to mix things up and break the monotony, every now and then.
Flex OG all you want—it’s bendy and accommodates itself for your needs. It’s the best massager for a reason, right? Now, that’s dedication, don’t you think? Dab on a little bit of our DTF intimate lubricant so it glides along and you get the most of the OG experience!
Best Sex of Your Life with Cute AF Magic Wands
The sex toys you have been waiting for, Salty and Mushy massagers have been a recent drop by Aunt Sassy and an instant hit with the masses. The USP for Salty and Mushy Massagers are its discreet and non-suggestive design and looks which can help them easily camouflage or blend in the background, and no one has to know. They get their names from the salt cellar, or a mushroom since they both look like one respectively. With 10 different INTENSE vibe modes, you can brace yourself for a sensational experience!
The Salty massager is one of the groovier sex toys for women, thanks to its textured exterior attributing to some extra AF, over-the-top fun alongside super sleek aesthetics that’ll win you over, again and again. Mushy on the other hand is a personal massager that’s known for its well-rounded, power-packed vibes to make your sex life smoother than butter! Use it with a partner (or, two), or go solo, Salty and Mushy are the magic wands you didn’t know you needed for your bedroom.
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Do Sex Toys Guarantee Better Sex Life?
When it comes to pleasure, and all things sex toys related, it can’t be possible to ‘guarantee’ that you’ll always have a good sex life while using sex toys. In fact, pleasure, intimacy, and connection are so personal and subjective and can differ greatly from one person to another, and from one situation to the next. There are many factors such as physical health, emotional headspace, stage of the relationship, etc., underlying how different people may or may not experience pleasure while using sex toys.
There’s no full-proof way or shortcut to having a better sex life, and sex toys only help you to facilitate your pleasure journey or make it worthwhile! Sex toys or not, you can always define the meaningful ways you’d like to experience pleasure and that’s what That Sassy Thing stands for!
I don’t want to be replaced by sex toys, am I not enough for my partner?
It’s absolutely normal for you to feel replaced or abandoned while introducing sex toys into the mix, given how you might’ve been conditioned about the gender roles during sex. Someone with a penis might feel that they’re expected to indulge in penetrative sex, and that’s what is supposed to help their partner experience pleasure or orgasms. But, haven’t we come far from such rigid and cishet definitions of sex? Sex toys are your companions, besties, and even accessories to help you and your partner have the best sex of your life! Sex toys can never replace human connection, touch, and intimacy and they aren’t supposed to either. Sex toys for women, for instance, can help your partners with a vulva achieve peak pleasure and satisfaction while they’re indulging in sexual play with you.
I don't have an active sex life, are sex toys good for solo play?
A big, bold YES! Sex toys are a great way (and, we cannot emphasize this enough) to get to know what works for you down there, and what pleasure looks like for you. Maybe you’re someone who likes their clit to experience some form of stimulation, whether that is in the form of vibrations, sucking action, or both. Or, some people with a sensitive clitoris might prefer penetrative toys to add a certain zing to their sex life. Whatever rocks your boat, there are some great options when it comes to sex toys for women/couple toys that you can explore when you’re going solo.
If you’re someone who’s masturbating but not involved in any form of partnered play, that’s just as valid. Pleasure may look different for all, and sex toys bring about a lot of ease, comfort, and agency while you’re on your journey of getting to know your body better. Your sex life includes all forms of sex you practice and masturbation/solo play is an active and vital part of it. After all, how else would you be able to communicate what you do like or dislike in bed if you yourself don’t know about it adequately?
Experimenting with what might bring you pleasure is a healthy way of amping things up when it comes to your sex life. We often overhype the idea of ‘best sex’, but you’ve yet to know your best! From sex toys for yourself or getting couple toys, you can research, talk and understand your options better. So, if you’d like to start your search somewhere, That Sassy Thing has got you covered with an awesome range of sex toys for women for you to choose from, happy toy shopping!