I asked five male friends if they had embarrassing stories associated with masturbation, and four of them nodded in affirmation. Whether it was a family member walking in or someone's porn folder being discovered by a parent, the anecdotes were plentiful. One friend even recounted their family conducting a 'griha shanti pooja' after accidentally catching them masturbating believing they had gone astray.

It's fascinating, I tell you, the relationship Indians have with intimacy and sex, particularly concerning masturbation. Many men, especially Indian men, often associate embarrassment and guilt with it. Forget about masturbation techniques– even the simple question of "how to masturbate" becomes a challenge for many, with only the internet providing answers.

Male masturbation is more than just a quick release—it's a vital aspect of sexual satisfaction and self-discovery. It's like having a secret key to unlock the mysteries of your own pleasure palace. You'll discover what feels good, what doesn't, and everything in between.

But let's address the elephant in the room: the taboos and misconceptions surrounding it.

Masturbation isn't some dirty little secret—it's a natural and healthy part of human sexuality. It's as normal as brushing your teeth or taking a shower, only way more fun. Yet, society often slaps a big ol' taboo sticker on it, making guys feel guilty or ashamed for indulging in a little self-love. There's no shame in the game, fellas. Embrace it!

Being a woman, I obviously felt almost clueless while trying to write about how male masturbation works. Therefore, I sought out insights from male friends to research and gain a better understanding of basic masturbation techniques. One of the most fundamental techniques is simply using your hand. I am sure it is familiar to all of you. However, there's more to it than meets the eye, as my male friends tell me. The way you manipulate your grip, adjust the speed of your strokes, and explore different movements can significantly impact your experience during masturbation. Not just your penis, even areas such as the underside of the penis called the frenulum can be particularly sensitive for so many, and add up to the fun.

Exploring best male masturbation positions

When it comes to the fine art of male masturbation, finding the perfect position is like uncovering buried treasure. It takes a little exploration. So let's dive in, shall we? First up, we've got the classic standing stance. Picture yourself confidently taking charge, maybe even giving a cheeky wink to the mirror. It's all about that freedom of movement and the thrill of the moment. It's also the favourite position of Kevin Spacey in American beauty, remember?

But if you're more of a laid-back type, settling into a plush chair or reclining on your favourite spot might be more your thing.

For Gaurav, standing up just doesn’t work.

“It isn’t very comfortable. My knees start to bend, and I don’t feel hard when my legs are straight. Thus sitting position is the most comfortable for me”. 

Now, let's not forget the tried-and-true favourite: lying down.

“Ah, the sheer bliss of sinking into your sheets and letting your imagination run wild. It's like hitting the jackpot of comfort and convenience. It's super relaxing and I do it when I feel like treating myself. Otherwise, if it's a quick, hush-hush job then any other position works for me”, says B, another male participant who contributed to the discussion. 

Then there is squatting, kneeling and other similar positions which can give you a bit more comfort as per your convenience. Some prefer to do it in the shower. Cue the mood lighting and soothing water and it can be a sensory experience like no other. 

“The warm water on the balls or the head just adds more to the sensation, I feel. And no pressure of really cleaning up later, just stay closer to the drain”, says Anand. 

Remember, in the time of desperation, do it however you like (wink wink)

Advanced male masturbation techniques

Now before we dive into the juicier details of advanced male masturbation techniques like edging, let's get one thing straight: edging isn't just about getting to the edge and pulling back—it's a cocktail of pleasure and self-control. It is like that feeling when you're cruising towards climax highway, but instead of flooring it, you hit the brakes just in time, leaving you hanging on the edge of ecstasy. It's a game of patience and finesse and with a little practice, you'll be the master of your own pleasure. So, what's the secret sauce behind edging? 

“It's all about knowing when to push forward and when to slam on the brakes, giving you the power to ride those waves of pleasure like a pro surfer. I get the most intense Os through edging. The teasing is just mind blowing”, says B. 

For Trushit, prostate stimulation works best. The prostate is this walnut-sized gland located between the bladder and the base of the penis. When it comes to sexual pleasure, stimulating the prostate can be a game-changer. Some folks refer to it as the male G-spot, and for good reason—it's packed with nerve endings that can lead to mind-blowing orgasms when touched just right. 

“Whether you're exploring solo or with a partner, prostate stimulation involves gently massaging or applying pressure to the prostate. It might sound a bit out there, but trust me, when done correctly, it can unlock a whole new level of pleasure. So, if you're feeling curious and adventurous, it's definitely worth giving prostate stimulation a try. Just remember to take it slow, use plenty of lube, and communicate with your partner if you're trying it together”, suggests Trushit.

Advanced techniques also include using lubes, sex toys, and props. Some men prefer to use household things like pillows and soft towels, but now there is a whole range of sex toys for men to help you achieve the climax better. Using lube makes things smoother, and ramps up the pleasure and comfort levels to a whole new level. It reduces friction, prevents chafing, and makes everything feel oh-so-much better. When it comes to choosing the right lube for your solo adventures, you've got options. Water-based lubes are versatile and safe to use with most toys, while silicone-based lubes offer long-lasting slickness. And let's not forget about oil-based lubes, perfect for those who like a little extra glide. Experiment, find what works best for you, and never underestimate the power of a well-lubricated session. Our water based aloe-infused DTF massage gel will just perfectly suit the gentle parts of your body and will give you a non-sticky, mess-free experience. 

If you're really looking to take things up a notch, consider adding some toys and accessories into the mix. Think vibrating sleeves, prostate massagers, or vibrating strokers —all designed to send those pleasure receptors into overdrive. You can check out our Taco massager, with a dual-stimulation mode to help you have the most amazing experience.

Whether you're alone or inviting a partner to join in on the fun, these little gadgets can turn an ordinary session into an unforgettable experience. So go ahead, explore, experiment, and never be afraid to indulge in a little extra pleasure. After all, life's too short for boring masturbation sessions.

Also check out our blog on the complete guide on masturbation to understand what is masturbation its effects and tips

Mastering Male Masturbation FAQs:

1. How do men masturbate?

A: Men masturbate using their hands or with the help of sex toys, exploring what feels best for them.

2. What are the best masturbation positions for men?

A: There is no right answer to this. Masturbation positions for men vary; try standing, lying down, or experimenting to find what rocks your boat.

3. Are there advanced techniques for male masturbation?

A:Yes, advanced techniques like edging and prostate stimulation can take solo play to the next level.

4. Is it normal for men to use lubrication or sex toys during masturbation?

A: Absolutely! Using lubrication or sex toys can enhance pleasure and add excitement to the experience.

5. Can masturbation affect sexual performance or health in men?

A: Masturbation is normal and generally doesn't affect sexual performance or health negatively, but like anything, moderation is key, friends!

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About the Author

Disha (she/her) believes she's half therapist because people spill their guts to her with ease. But for now, she's writing sassy pieces on the internet about all things fun and pop culture. With a flair for wit and a curious spirit, she is all about digging into the saucy details of human intimacy.